By the way, not sure if you saw that post going around about this, but make sure you have safe mode off, my posts are getting tagged as NSFW now so you won’t see them if this is on, just a heads up!
What he said ^
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sam riegel would physically manifest in the game himself if it meant protecting anybody else’s character and this has been true since campaign 1
Anyway, nobody wants to admit that the next step is dissolving the imaginary line between civilian women and sex workers. Imagine if getting compensated for your time were compulsory instead of something you hate other women for being able to do
Even the ‘pro-sex work’ civilian women take every precaution to distance themselves from sex workers. “I support their right to do sex work, even though I’m NOT ONE OF THEM!!!”.
Guess what? If you’re a woman who interacts with men in any capacity, you’re already doing sex work. Whether or not you’re getting paid for it is another matter altogether.
It’s a pretty standard take that men should be contributing just as much to relationships as women do. They should be providing equal time, energy, attention, labor (domestic, emotional, sexual, or otherwise). The controversial part is demanding equity when men fail to provide equality. If he’s not going to bring exactly what you’re bringing to the table, why shouldn’t he bring something of equal value?
If you find a man that adds value to your life without subtracting any, if you find a man that puts in all the same effort in all the same ways as you do, who does just as much work for you as you do for him, that’s great. You are both providing sexual and emotional labor (aka work) for each other. But how many men do you really know like that? How many of the men in your life honestly fit that description, even when they try their best? Unless you want to give pieces of yourself away until you are spent completely, you need to be getting something back. So you can either cut down your labor to match theirs (for most m/f relationships, this would mean 0 or negative labor), OR you can charge for the difference.
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